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People are busy. We practically live in a whirlwind. Cell phones and emails keep us
in constant contact with others throughout a work day. While modern communications
tools offer productivity, they threaten simple professional courtesy with those with
whom we have influence.
Sadly I recently learned that a “mentor” of mine is in hospice. We had not talked in
years. In that moment, I could not help but to reflect on the impact his simple
involvement in my life had on my career.
This man, Dan, is highly respected, with great influence throughout the publishing
industry. He is a teacher, a leader, and always in demand—often speaking at events as
an expert in the field.
A humble man, it is likely he is even aware of his impact on so many people, including
me. But, it is important that we always reflect on how people like he inspire us in our
careers and to honor them by emulating those skills—paying forward. Here is what I
learned from his example.
Never be too busy for novices: Years ago Dan befriended me when I was a totally
inexperienced, aspiring writer. My writing resume was non-existent, but I was
eager to learn. He took time to meet with me, redirected my thoughts and told
me to keep up the creativity and hard work. Even during our time together,
never once did I feel unimportant.
Always return correspondence: Several times, over the years, I emailed him with
ideas. Even though they were not ideas that he could use, he always responded
with encouragement. He took time for dialogue and offer feedback.
Be determined to learn from those willing to teach: At various conferences,
which I attended where he was a speaker, his humble persona always made me
feel welcomed. He took time to field questions and provided constructive feedback.
Be truthful: He offered sound professional advice. If my ideas were not headed in
the right direction, Dan didn’t beat around the bush. He told me the truth, yet
offered a fresh way of looking at things. He was honest, and I was able to take
his council, challenge myself and sharpen my skills.
Being a mentor doesn’t always mean a formal relationship where one is designated
to lead another. Often mentors are quiet experts in their field, going about their
work, taking time to invest in those around them.
Today, my resume has grown. My experience has broadened. There have been success
stories along my journey. Much was learned from my association with this publishing
industry leader, for whose professionalism I will always be grateful. His example has led
me to the simple conclusion that my work will always more than just work. It is an
opportunity to invest time and interest in others and set an example that makes a
difference for years to come.